Steve Rennie, The Canadian Press
OTTAWA - Canada's stores of fresh water are not as plentiful as once thought, and water shortages threaten to pinch the economy and pit provinces against each other, says a newly released document.
An internal report drafted last December by Environment Canada warns that climate change and a growing population will further drain resources.
"We can no longer take our extensive water supplies for granted," says the report, titled A Federal Perspective on Water Quantity Issues.
The Canadian Press obtained the 21-page draft report under the Access to Information Act.
It suggests the federal government take a more hands-on role in managing the country's water, which is now largely done by the provinces. Ottawa still manages most of the fresh water in the North through water boards.
The Conservatives promised a national water strategy in last fall's throne speech but have been criticized since for announcing only piecemeal projects.
The Tories, like the previous Liberal government, are also behind in publishing annual reports required by law that show how water supplies are used and maintained.
The last assessment posted on Environment Canada's website is from 2005-06.
The internal draft report says the government currently does not know enough about the country's water to properly manage it.
"Canada lacks sound information at a national scale on the major uses and user(s) of water," it says.
"National forecasting of water availability has never been done because traditionally our use of the resource was thought to be unlimited."
Canada has a fifth of the world's supply of fresh water, but only seven per cent of it is renewable. The rest comes from ice-age glaciers and underground aquifers.
One per cent of Canada's total water supply is renewed each year by precipitation, the report says.
Moreover, government data on the country's groundwater reserves is deemed "sparse and often inadequate."
That's in contrast to the United States, which has spent more than a decade mapping its underground water reserves. Canada shares aquifers with the U.S., and the report says: "Our lack of data places Canada at strategic disadvantage for bilateral negotiations with the U.S."
Through an email from his spokesman, Environment Minister John Baird said he welcomed the report's findings.
"This report is a one-stop shop document that can guide us toward ensuring that we get clean, safe water to Canadians, wherever they choose to live."
The report forecasts droughts in the Prairies and groundwater shortages in British Columbia and the Great Lakes-St. Lawrence River basin.
There are already signs of water shortages in the Great Lakes. Lake Superior, the largest of the five, fell to its lowest level on record last September. Lakes Michigan and Huron were about 50 centimetres below their historical average levels last fall.
The report says a 0.08-to 1.18-metre drop in Great Lakes water levels costs the hydro-electric industry between $240 million and $350 million each year.
The report also warns of a "heightened risk" of showdowns between the provinces, and between Canada and the States, if the water supply dips too low.
Canada insists its water is not for sale. But a parched southern neighbour could ratchet up pressure to ship water south if its supply continues to dwindle.
Out-of-control suburban sprawl in the southern U.S. and agricultural water usage have spawned a water crisis that threatens to worsen in the future.
Atlanta's main water source, Lake Lanier, shrank to an all-time low last November. Lakes fed by the mighty Colorado River - which supplies water to more than 20 million Americans - were just half full last year. Los Angeles had its driest year on record.
The Environment Canada report is one in a string of foreboding federal studies on climate change.
Natural Resources Canada released a major study this spring predicting more frequent droughts, severe floods and wildfires, and declining water quality and quantity.
Last month, Health Canada released a 500-page report warning of heightened health problems as the climate changes, ranging from more heat-related illnesses and deaths to outbreaks of previously unknown infectious diseases.
Those reports were released late in the day, with little fanfare.
Tony Maas, a senior policy adviser at WWF Canada, said he's pleased the government is studying the impacts of water shortages.
"The fact that they're even taking this close a look at this issue is good news in my mind, because they've been away from the fresh-water scene for so long," he said.
Liberal MP Francis Scarpaleggia, the party's water critic, says Ottawa needs a junior water minister to focus attention on the issue.
Monday, August 25, 2008
Stop taking water for granted
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Sunday, August 24, 2008
Perfection?
What could this possibly mean for Tanner and other children with facial deformities if anything???
Would I even ever consider it if it were perfected and common enough down the road? Could this potentially mean he would have a "perfect" face? No, I would never consider doing it and no, Tanner's face is already perfect to us. If he chose to do this procedure on his own down the road, then that would be his choice, but I would not consider doing this unless the doctors strongly suggested it. Well, even then, I would fast my brains out to make sure it was what was right for Tanner. I would fast 3 times a week just to be 100% sure.
It sounds like a great potential for victims of animal attacks, but not for a cosmetic correction to look better. That's just my opinion.
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Pictures to come
If I can figure out how to get pictures on my blog without writing from my computer, then there will be a lot of pictures that I'll upload of our super, fabulous weekend. We have had a great time. Amazing! Wonderful! Splendid! Fun! I don't think I've had such a great time in a while. I hope when my husband throws me a surprise 30th birthday party it will be just as great. That's a huge HUGE hint for those of you. I really want a surprise party in April when I turn 30. I've never had a surprise party at all and what a great occasion to finally have one right?????
Anyways, we have had a great weekend so far. We are looking forward to the next 2 days.
We ended up at my Aunt's house in Airdrie instead of at my MIL's. Long, unhappy story that I don't really need to repeat, but we are having a great time...other than being woken up every night by 2 or 3 trains. My aunt lives right by the tracks and it's so loud. I really need my small town place of residence...little noise. No airplanes, trains, traffic, sirens all night, drunken people yelling, car horns honking, car alarms going off. That is what I am looking forward to in a couple of nights. SILENCE! Pure silence. Ahhhhhh....
It was really funny that people asked me at my Mom's party how we were liking Raymond and we both answered the same every time...we LOVE it! It's glorious. Quiet, peaceful, relaxing, and calm. OH! and every one asked me in that way that you know they're asking for more information without trying to be insulting how I was doing...like I was pregnant. I had to laugh because I said I was doing wonderful and didn't say anything more. Oh, people...if they only knew...lol. I think we're getting to that stage where people kind of expect us to be having or trying to have another baby. Sometimes I think people need to just keep their opinions on something that is so personal and intimate to themselves...especially if you don't have a close relationship with that person. It would be like if you're bishop just randomly came up to you and asked if when you were going to have another baby because he thought it might be time. That might be a bad analogy, but hopefully the point comes across.
Well, I should be off to bed soon. Until later...
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Saturday, August 23, 2008
Fired
I know I haven't written in 2 days and so I'm firing myself....haa haaa, just kidding. Things here have been crazy and busy. Just a few stories to share. My Aunt Carolyn (some of you know who she is) fell last week and had a very very serious break in her shoulders. The doctors told her that although it was good that she didn't need surgery, there's a possibility she may never regain full range of motion. Which is almost devastating considering the fact that she enjoys quilting so much. So she's a little fragile right now and needs a lot of help, therefore she is living at my Mom's for 6-8 weeks. So for her to come to my Mom's party, my Mom felt that it would be better if she was in a wheelchair so people don't bump her and we can get her to the bathroom etc. So my Mom called up her work and asked them if she could borrow a wheel chair. Of course the ADORE my Mom and agreed right away. So when they brought it to my Mom's guess who decided that he needed to "ride" on it? That's right...Tanner. It was so cute. It reminded me of when I was younger and we would all argue over who was going to ride in my Dad's wheelchair and who was going to push Dad etc. It was a great memory.
We also went to Pizza Hut yesterday because my Aunt was sleeping and for those of you who know Tanner, know he has a hard time being quiet. So we took advantage of the buffet they have for lunch to keep Tanner out of the house and eat. While we were there Tanner informed me that he did NOT like this restaurant and that he wanted to go to McDonalds...which was right across the street. Then he told Matt who hadn't been at the table when he told me, that he LOVED this place. What a goof!
OH, and this is a common thing for Tanner while traveling...as we were driving into Vulcan, I asked Tanner, who was watching a movie in the car, if he needed to go pee. Of course he said no. I mean, who would want to stop and leave their beloved movie to pee???? So as we get 5 minutes past Vulcan, he says "I need to pee are we almost in Vulcan?" Of course I had to tell him that we already passed vulcan and that he would have to go on the side of the road. He refused this idea and said he needed to pee on a potty. I knew Mossleigh was coming up and so I asked if he could hold it (he held himself from Clareholm to Raymond one time). He said he could but then he asked 5 minutes later if we were there. So I knew the urgency of the situation. I had in the car a large water cup...a tupperware one. So I stopped the car, emptied the water and had him pee in the cup and dumped it out. He actually did it. So from now on I'm going to carry a small bucket in the car. Don't worry, I sanitized the cup and washed it out a few hundred times.
So that has been our little adventures for the last few days. I am getting ready for my Mom's party so I should go and get to the 3 salads I'm making. Until later or next time...
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Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Keys ruin day
Yes, sad but true...
When I woke up this morning I was relatively happy. Then as I was getting ready to go VTing, I couldn't find my keys. This drives me totally insane and batty. I can not stand when I can't find my keys. This does not happen very often and I can usually find them within a few minutes. Today was a whole other case. So I was on edge all day. The reason I am a little paranoid right now was because I honestly believe that someone came into our house and stole our video camera when we had the door unlocked one time. I turned the house upside down...short of literally and could not find it. So I was upset that I couldn't find my keys because I wanted to lock up my house. Anyways, so all day I have been miserable because I couldn't find my keys. I know...a choice that I'm sure I regret and partly to blame on hormones...but nevertheless...grumpy.
Plus, while we were visiting teaching our one sister, Tanner was not nice to my friends little girl who have a very strong hate/love relationship. He was being such a brat. I won't be bringing him again. I try to get someone to watch him but sometimes it doesn't always work out.
When Matt came home, I politely and calmly informed him that I was on a very short fuse and when he asked why I told him. So he says to me "Are you sure you didn't leave them (the keys) in the car?" to which I reply "if I did, I couldn't look because you had the car today". So he happily went out and looked (I think it was to get away from me). They were in there! Thank goodness. Then I told him about the video camera and he said he would check in the car. So he went out a second time and of course it was there. I am so relieved. So needless to say, I am a bad person today for being so grumpy over something so trivial. Plus the fact that I can't call to ask Matt if he knows where they are was a little frustrating. So, I know tomorrow is a new day and I plan to make the best of it because it's Tanner's last swim class and we are going to Calgary!!!!!! I feel like it's Christmas or something. Tanner is so stinkin' giddy about it. Anyways, that's my day today. I am feeling much better now and think I'm going to make some chocolate milk and watch some Grey's.
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Labels: family, matt, reflections, tanner
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Where are you???
My brain is not functioning on blogger mode like it usually is. I can think of a lot of things to say but for the last couple of days, not much. So maybe I'll just tell you what we've been up to.
Today, I decided that I am going to can peaches when I get back from my super awesome trip in Calgary.
My adopted Mom...not really adopted literally but in heart, Ann, is going to help me do them because I have no clue how to do them. I am soooo excited. I remember having tons and tons of peaches when I was younger. They are so yummy. I think I'm going to get a 20lb case and then when pears come in, I'll do a 20 lb case of them.
I only have about 32 jars and I don't really want to buy more. I have to buy a bunch of rims and seals because the lady that gave me most of hers, kept the lids on and they're all rusted. I got some last year to do my raspberry jam, but I don't want to buy more if I don't have to.
My raspberry jam is not going to be overly successful this year because we didn't get as many berries as we did last year. So I'll just do them in the small jars. Maybe if anyone has raspberries they would like to give to me????? lol.
So that's what I've been up to today...for the most part. I took Tanner to swimming, did some laundry before it rained, did the dishes, finished packing and went to work. Oh, and Tanner and I played too and we made peanut butter cookies. They are so yummy. Of course we had to put chocolate chips in them. Tanner loves to put chocolate chips in every cookie. Tomorrow, I'm going visiting teaching, taking Tanner to his second last swim class, and cleaning the bathroom. So, until tomorrow...
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Monday, August 18, 2008
Culture and English
There is a culture everywhere you go and it is more and more evident to me as I go to gatherings. People in small towns are rooted in their history and their culture...their way of life so to speak. People have a certain way of doing things and way of life that is different from other places. The people take more pride in things here and genuinely care. They include you like you were family. There are different unspoken expectations in a certain culture or town. I always think of the theme song from the t.v. show Cheers...you wanna go where everyone knows your name. Though I am very aware of the outsidedness that I come from, I still feel like I am included in the moving forward of a new chapter.
Recently I was talking to a lady who home schools her children. We were talking about reading and writing because I was asking her if she had ever used the hooked on phonics system for her children. She hadn't but explained to me that she has her own cards (I'm assuming they are home schooled approved) that she uses to teach her children phonetic sounds. English is a very tricky language...can I just say that. She told me that she doesn't worry if her children don't know how to correctly spell a word or read. She feels it's more important to teach them the sounds of things and if her children come to her and ask her if luv says love, she tells them it does.
As I think about this more and more as Tanner is learning to read, I wonder if my child would struggle through school or life being taught that way. Are sounds more important than learning to actually spell correctly and sound words out? Of course you have to know the sounds each letter makes to sound words out that you're reading, but if a child spelt the word love l-u-v, would you correct them or just let it be? I guess each child is unique and every parent has their own belief on what does or doesn't work. I, myself, am shocked that Tanner had any interest in letters at such a young age and is now reading short, easy 4-5 word sentences (words like, cat, hat, rat, bat, ran, can, and, pig, dog etc). I never push him because the system he is using is a kindergarten level and he's only going into pre-school. I let him go at his own pace. He's only read the first 2 books out of 13 books to read at the kindergarten level. I just wonder if I shouldn't worry about if he uses sounds more than correct reading to actually read. I hope that makes sense. Anyways, it's just something I have been thinking about. As I re-read this paragraph, I think: 'read' can be used in 2 different ways but spelt the same. I like to read or I have read that book. How is that phonetically correct??? See, the English language is complicated. Maybe I'll teach Tanner french and we'll just all learn to speak french...lol.
This weekend was beautiful! Really hot. And I think I got either heat stroke or heat exhaustion, because I didn't go to church because I had a massive headache and then when it was gone, we went to dinner and a friends house and my headache came back. We walked over there in hot sun so maybe even that little bit made me sick again. Today, Tanner and I stayed inside the air conditioned house and practiced his letters...forming them and using words that start with the letter. He has these sheets that have the letters on them and then I have shapes that form each letter. So for example, the 2 big curved 'c' shaped ones together make the letter 'o'. Or two 'c' shaped ones make the letter 's'. Or two big straight ones form the letter 'H' or one straight one and one small curved one form the letter 'h'...well sord of. Anyways, it's something that the occupational therapist wants us to work on with him. He thinks it's fun and I know he's doing something that he needs to do without being pushed to do it. So in the end, we both win.
I am totally crazy and have packed our bags for this weekend at my Mom's. I am so stoked...I can't even tell you. I have a few things I still need to do. I like to make sure our house is clean before we leave so that when we come home, I can enjoy coming home to a clean house. It helps me feel more relaxed and calm when I come home. So I still have a few loads of laundry and I am cleaning the bathroom on Wednesday. Plus, we have to remember to pick our raspberries and dig up some potatoes for a salad and then water the garden Wednesday night before we leave. I could do it Thursday morning but I want to be able to enjoy my morning and not worry about that. So there you have it.
That's all for now. Until tomorrow.
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Labels: reflections, tanner
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Good intentions
I had great intentions to bring my camera to the primary swim party but I forgot. Alas, we still had a blast and we even payed and stayed a bit longer. Tanner is a little fish and he's getting pretty confident at swimming on his own without a life jacket on. He does not like the diving board anymore...which I'm not too sure what that's about. We were all pretty tired to do much after. Matt helped our friend, Chris, put the vinyl on his deck while Susanne and I visited and looked through the Sears wish book...yep, that's right. Christmas already! I hope everyone has a great sabbath. I am so utterly exhausted I can't even think straight.
Good night until tomorrow.
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Friday, August 15, 2008
Is it even possible?
To be over happy? Lately, I just feel so so happy. Like more happy than I think I know how to handle or deal with. People keep asking me what I'm on and I just say that I'm high on life. Does that even makes sense?
I got an opportunity to talk about the gospel with one of my co-workers and that made me so grateful that I got to share some things with her. Anyways, I feel like I could spread the happiness around a bit so that's it for now.
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Sewing
Today I went to the fabric store...D-A-N-G-E-R-O-U-S!!! I LOVE our little fabric store here. I wanted to look for some flannel backing for the blanket I'm going to make for Tanner's bed. I found some really adorable "I am a Child of God" flannel print fabric that I'm going to get once I get the top done. I am really excited to use the new to me sewing machine that Sharon gave me. I have to get some thread too. While I was in Lethbridge I also went to look at the fabric at Fabricland. I didn't find a lot there so maybe I'll look when we're in Calgary...if I have time. I am so excited to go up there and see my Aunt that I haven't seen in about 3 years. Plus, my other Aunt fell on Monday and broke her shoulder and is in a splint so I'm sure it will be nice for my Mom and other Aunt to have a little break to be able to get stuff done for the party. I LOVE parties. I am so much like my Mom in that way. I love seeing my family and playing games.
So not much else going on. It's suppose to be 31 degrees tomorrow. Which will be great for Tanner's Primary swim party. Then on Monday and Tuesday it's suppose to be 33. Holy Hotness! I hope I don't die from heat exhaustion. This medicine that I'm on right now makes me hot all the time so I am not looking forward to actually being hot on top of already feeling hot. Too bad I can't lay around in my swim suit all day. It's days like this that I wish I was a life guard and had a real reason to wear a swim suit all the time. It's too hot for anything else.
Well, that's it for now.
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Thursday, August 14, 2008
Pictures and fabric
Here are some pictures of Tanner from swimming today. ALSO, if anyone has some scrap pieces of material that they don't know what to do with or not big enough for a project, I was wondering if I could have them. I'd like to make Tanner a blanket. The blankets that fit his bed are pink or purple. So I would like to make him one with boy and or neutral colors. I made him one last year but I use it more for a cover for his bed and not really a blanket to keep warm with. I know I'm a bit strange. Anyway, if you have any material laying around that I could have, please let me know.
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I forgot
I know I forgot to post yesterday but I was being lazy and kind of non productive. Tanner went to the circus with his friend and his friends family yesterday so I had an afternoon of doing nothing. I watched a bit of Grey's, read a book, cleaned up the kitchen and had a little rest.
At work the other day, some teenage girls came in all dressed up like they were pregnant. Yes, you didn't mis-read that. They had big bellies and dressed in maternity clothes from who knows where. Who does that? Now I understand going out in your p.j's for fun but to dress up like you're pregnant? It made me sad to think that they take something so special and sacred so lightly. And the other thought I had was "did their parents see them going out like this?" It just kind of bothered me that they were mocking motherhood in a way and never thought about other people and in a sense were insensitive in their activity. Some people can't even get pregnant or have a hard time and here they are mocking it like anyone could be and get pregnant. AND they were SO loud and obnoxious. They were standing on the benches in the store and being super loud and when they left, they left a huge mess. It just shows how society is declining in common sense and in how even the generation after me is...for lack of a better word...much more blatantly rude to others. I just hope that Tanner is not like that. It opens my eyes to how great the responsibility is on me to teach Tanner. Not that I didn't know that I need to teach him but it weighs heavily on me sometimes. All I know is that I need to teach him correct principles and let him govern himself at the right age.
Anyways, that's all for now. I'm off to get ready to take Tanner to swim lessons.
Posted by Mandy at 9:21 AM 3 comments
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
So sweet
Just for this morning, I am going to step over the laundry, and pick you up and take you to the park to play.
Just for this morning, I will leave the dishes in the sink, and let you teach me how to put that puzzle of yours together.
Just for this afternoon, I will unplug the telephone and keep the computer off, and sit with you in the backyard and blow bubbles.
Just for this afternoon, I will not yell once, not even a tiny grumble when you scream and whine for the ice cream truck and I will buy you one if he comes by.
Just for this afternoon, I won't worry about what you are going to be when you grow up, or second guess every decision I have made where you are concerned.
Just for this afternoon, I will let you help me bake cookies, and I won't stand over you trying to fix them.
Just for this afternoon, I will take us to McDonald's and buy us both a Happy Meal so you can have both toys.
Just for this evening, I will hold you in my arms and tell you a story about how you were born and how much I love you.
Just for this evening, I will let you splash in the tub and not get angry.
Just for this evening, I will let you stay up late while we sit on the porch and count all the stars.
Just for this evening, I will snuggle beside you for hours, and miss my favorite TV shows.
Just for this evening when I run my finger through your hair as you pray, I will simply be grateful that God has given me the greatest gift ever given.
I will think about the Mothers and Fathers who are searching for their missing children, the Mothers and Fathers who are visiting their children's graves instead of their bedrooms, and Mothers and Fathers who are in hospital rooms watching their children suffer senselessly, and screaming inside that they can't handle it anymore.
And when I kiss you good night I will hold you a little tighter, a little longer. It is then, that I will thank God for you, and ask Him for nothing, except one more day.............
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Stolen...This is me
I saw this on Christal's blog and loved it so I thought I would blog steal it and do it.
I am: a child of God, happy, free to make my own choices
I think: I could be a better person, about everything all the time...non stop
I know: that God lives, that my family and friends love me, that tomorrow is a new day to try to be better
I want: to be able to afford a house in my lifetime, to be a great mother, to be a better friend, to be more educated, to be a better wife
I have: everything in life that I have ever wanted, what's important to me
I wish: I was smarter, I paid more attention in school, some days were easier, some people would stop seeing me as the person I was in the past and see me for who I am now
I dislike: people who lie, when people let their dogs poop in my yard and don't clean it up...there's a reason I don't have a dog, contention
I miss: my Dad, my friends that I don't get to see as often as I'd like, the YSA dances
I fear: my family dying, the unknown, I won't be ready when the Savior comes again
I feel: full, happy, satisfied, loved, excited, tired, peaceful
I hear: crickets; if you put toothpaste on a mosquito bite, it will stop the itching
I smell: good, I hope; like subway
I crave: love and affection, water,
I usually: lie in bed in the morning with my eyes closed, pretending I'm asleep
I search: for good deals, for answers
I wonder: if I'll have more kids in this life or the next, if people actually like me,
I regret: nothing...the past is just that
I love: myself, my family, friends, the gospel, to laugh, a good book
I care: what other people think about me,
I always: roll my eyes, think
I worry: about how Tanner will be treated as he gets older
I am not: a liar, skinny,
I remember: childhood memories like they happened just yesterday, everything about Tanner's beginning in life
I believe: people can be good people if they choose to want to be good, life is all about choices
I dance: all the time especially in the car
I sing: in the car and in the church choir
I don’t always: stay in touch with the people I really want to as much as I'd like to
I argue: when I am passionate about an issue
I write: in a journal for Tanner
I win: games with Tanner but let him think that he's won if he's in a sensitive mood
I lose: my mind when teeny boppers come into subway and are loud and obnoxious and rude
I never: want to be in debt again, thought I'd be so lucky to have an amazing little guy for a son, thought I could ever love someone so much,
I listen: to both sides of a story if possible, to Matt and Tanner playing, to church music almost daily,
I don't understand: a lot about a lot of things, why people are mean, homosexuality, why people think the things they do, why some people get to have what they want when they want and then others have to go through so much to try to get the things they want
I can usually be found: at home, outside,
I am scared: of the future
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Labels: life, lists, reflections, tanner
Monday, August 11, 2008
Bad parenting moment
Today was Tanner's first swim lesson and guess what I forgot???? My camera!!!! Not a good moment but at least we'll be going for the next 2 weeks. It was pretty windy so he was, of course, very cold. So stay tuned for some pictures this week.
I can't believe that August is already 1/3 of the way done. Pretty soon we'll be getting Tanner into a bedtime routine where he doesn't sit in his bed reading until 10pm. He'll have to get up at 7:30am so I suspect it will be 8pm bed time with lights out at 8:30. Right now it's around 9pm bed and 10pm lights. It allows us all to sleep in a bit in the morning (usually until 9am). It's still early enough to be productive but late enough to feel like you are actually getting to sleep in.
OH! The parented pre-school teacher and the lady that runs Stay and Play called me to tell me about this really great website. You should check it out. It looks fairly new but I'm not 100% sure. Here is the link.
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Sunday, August 10, 2008
Safety
Today in Primary the Teacher was talking about how the Holy Ghost helps to answer our prayers and she related a story about how when she was getting her children ready to go to swimming she lost one of her children. She looked all around the house and in their yard but couldn't find him. So she said a quick prayer and the feeling that came to her was that he was at the pool. She ignored the prompting and continued to look because she didn't feel that her son would ever just start walking to the pool on his own. So one of the other members in the ward saw him and went to tell the boys mother. So Tanner turns to me after this story (he's sitting a row in front and across from me) and says "Are you coming to my swimming this week?" and I replied that I was. Then he says "I won't go alone. I will wait for you and not walk there by myself". To which I said thank you and "turn around and be reverent please". Everyone had a little chuckle over that. I love him, he's so cute!
The Elders are having a father/son camp out in September and my boys (meaning Matt and Tanner) are SOOOOOOO excited. It will be Tanner's first camp out with Matt in a place other than our backyard. AND! I'm excited to have the night for myself. Maybe I'll have a girls night....hmmmmmm
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Labels: church, tannerisms
Saturday, August 9, 2008
Looking for the 50's
I am looking for a shirt or skirt or outfit that is 50/60's style like in the picture below of my Mom standing by the car. Loud, bright, big patterned. If anyone has anything, could I please borrow it to wear. Just leave a comment in my comment section and let me know...thanks! 
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Night at the Roxbury
Okay so the title of this post has nothing to do with the actual post. I was just being random in my title....lol.
Our yard sale was very slow today and we only made $10. So we packed it up early and took everything into Value Village. Then we headed over to Blockbuster and traded in our DVD's for credit. We got a credit of $12 so we are going to save it until Prince Caspian comes out and use the credit towards buying the movie. I can't wait, I'm so excited!
Then, because Tanner was such a great little helper we let him have the change we couldn't deposit in the bank machine to get a little treat (it was only $3.35). So we went over to Toys R Us and he picked out 2 Hot Wheels and a .25 gum from the gum machine. When I asked him what he was going to pick, he said just gum. When I told him that he had money to buy more than just gum if he wanted, he jumped up and down and said he was going to get a Hot Wheels. It was pretty cute.
So now we are finishing our lesson for tomorrow and watching Narnia (The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe).
I am planning on going to bed super early tonight as it's been a long, hot day. So until tomorrow.
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Labels: tannerisms
Friday, August 8, 2008
Another one!
So just a few things...
1. As I was checking my e-mail I had an e-mail that read "Can you burn fat while text messaging". SERIOUSLY!? What is wrong with people?
2. Matt got a job! Hooray for him. Hooray for us! I am so so so so so relieved. AND the really great part about it is that I won't have to work so much. I can still have 2-3 days a week working instead of 4 or 5 and we'll still be able to make ends meet. YEA!!! He is working as a labourer with the county of Warner. Doing stuff like fixing fences, filling holes in cement etc etc. It's 4 days a week 10 hours a day. Monday to Thursday, with Fridays off. The job is suppose to be until December. Which should work out perfect because then he'll go to school in January. I'm still crossing my fingers though and not holding my breath. Anyways, so that's good news for us.
3. The yard sale today was a success. I am looking forward to tomorrow. I would like to have everything sold so if by noon or 1 it's not half gone, I'm going to start selling it all for .25 I don't want to have to make a trip into Lethbridge to take it to the Salvation Army. PLUS, I have baking goods. Come on people! Who doesn't love home made baking goods? Buy a cookie or square for .25 At Subway you pay .77 for one cookie. And they're not even home made. Plus mine are for a good cause. We are going to put the money in Tanner's bank account to help to pay for his year at school. That's gotta count for something right??? So please if you live in Raymond, COME TO THE YARD SALE EVEN IF IT'S JUST FOR A COOKIE!!!! Tanner even helped make the cookies and he really is trying hard to sell them to people.
4. We had a fantastic Elder's party tonight. It was so much fun!
Anyways, I think that's it for now.
Posted by Mandy at 9:52 PM 4 comments
A public protest
I am very interested in hearing what all of my readers think of this one. I personally did not publicly nurse...I had to pump but I never did it in a public place like in a mall.
Here is the article
Posted by Mandy at 4:36 PM 9 comments
Labels: opinion
Bullying
My child is a bully.
He does not play nice with other kids lately and it's more than just irritating me. I need some serious, real, hard core advice and suggestions because I have NO CLUE what to do.
He pushes for no reason, he body checks, and constantly grabs toys. If he pushes or body checks people I give him only 1 warning and then send him to his room if he does it again. If he grabs a toy, I ask him who had it first. If the other person did then I tell him he needs to give it back and wait his turn. If he had it first then I remind him that we need to share and that he can play with the toy for x amount of time and then the other person gets to have a turn with it.
Clearly, this isn't working. Or maybe it isn't working lately because he does it all the time. Sometimes I even tell him he won't be able to go over or have friends over if he keeps doing x. I also tell him that that behaviour is not nice or not acceptable or unkind and mean and that we need to treat other people kindly. Sometimes I have even said "Do you think Heavenly Father and Jesus would want you to be mean or yell(or whatever the behaviour is)?" Sometimes he says "no" but then keeps doing it.
My problem is the punishment/consequence. I'm not sure if what I'm doing is working or not. Right now, this week, it's not. It's kind of a hit and miss some days. How do I encourage him to share? It's very frustrating...ahhhhh!
Posted by Mandy at 9:47 AM 4 comments
Thursday, August 7, 2008
I promise
I know everyone knows how I feel about lateness so I promise that I will not complain about it anymore on bloggerland. I may make a comment about someone being late but I will never write a post about it again.
Today I am catching up on some good old Grey's Anatomy...I swear, that show is my biggest weakness. Anyways, then I am going to do some baking for our yard sale this weekend. I am totally crazy for doing this because it's supposed to be 30 degrees today. And why don't computer keyboards have a "degree" sign??? Do the makers of keyboards not think that anyone would ever want to use something as useful as that? How do the cooking show websites get it on their websites? Where is it????
Anyways, I am looking forward to selling all the junk, soon to be found treasure for the buyer, we have. We're selling a bunch of baby things, a toy work bench, some toys, some clothes, my cards (calm down, I took out a handful that I am not willing to part with. Plus, I don't know if all the cards will sell.) and just a few other Nick knack kind of things. I do have a tool belt that Matt only used 2 times that I'm selling if anyone is interested. And a thermos. I'd really like to sell some of the baby clothes I have but I have to wait until my sister has her baby before I can do that. OH! I also have a bunch of Tupperware that I'm selling. It's stuff that I have never used and probably never will. Things I thought were a good idea at the time I got them or wanted them, but then never used. So that's about it. Until later or tomorrow.
Posted by Mandy at 8:58 AM 1 comments
Labels: random
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
A fun day
Today is my friend, Susanne's, birthday. For her birthday a few of us got together and had a little surprise party for her. It was so much fun! Here are some pictures from the fun time together.
Here's one of my best friends, Sharon. Isn't she cute!
Here is her family. Aren't they all so cute!
Shelby, Tanner and Anna eating...only because they knew cake was coming
Nicole and Susanne. Nicole and Susanne grew up together
Susanne and her cake. The wind blew the candles out so we had to pretend that she blew them out. That's why she looks so surprised.
So we had a great time...well at least I did. I've never thrown a surprise party because someone has always upstaged me or taken my ideas and did the party themselves. So I am happy that I FINALLY got to throw one. It was so wonderful to be with amazing, wonderful friends and have our children play and visit with each other. I am so so so eternally lucky and blessed to have such terrific friends that love me and stand by me and support me no matter what. Friends that I care for so deeply and feel so loyal to them. I just really love my friends. Life would not be the same without them.
I love friends!
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Great website
I just came across this amazing website. Check it out...you may just become a little smarter.
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Labels: random
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
Kindred Spirits
If you have ever seen the movie "Anne of Green Gables", you know what I'm talking about. If not, then you should watch it because it's a really great movie.
Anyways, when I was younger and watched that movie I always wished I had a friendship like Anne and Diana's. They were kindred spirits. My sister's all seemed to find their kindred spirits while we were younger but I hadn't. Although I have always had one or two best friends in my life, I have never felt like we were kindred spirits. Don't get me wrong, I love all my friends but there's a different kind of connection with someone that you consider a kindred spirit. There's something about having and being part of a kindred spirit kind of friendship that is hard to explain to someone who's never felt that way. I didn't really feel like I had a kindred spirit until just recently. Now, I'm not going to reveal who this person is because I don't feel it necessary to do so. I LOVE ALL MY FRIENDS unconditionally.
Sometimes you just find a friend that you connect with on a different level than you do with your other friends. A friend that fits into your life like a puzzle piece that you didn't know was missing. Someone that you feel a deeper connection to than someone that maybe you've known for a long time. It's hard to explain in words what makes a friend not just a friend but a kindred spirit. It's like my friend and I were made to be friends.
I have a handful of friends that I love and adore sooooo much. Friends that I try hard to stay in contact with because of distance. Friends that I love to be with and hang out with. Friends that love me. Friends that I really would willingly give up my life for in a split second no questions asked. Friends that mean everything to me. Friends that I could not imagine my life without. I value and love and treasure deeply all my friends and the friendships I have with those I call my friend.
But this friend is someone that happened to come into my life in the most natural, unprovoked way. I'm not even sure either one of us was seeking the other out to friendship.
I always sort of envied people that had that kind of relationship with each other. You know that kind where when you see them together, you just know they are meant to be friends. The kind of friendship that last forever. The kind of friendship that when you're with the person everything else that might be wrong in your life is okay. The kind of friendship that has an unspoken comfortableness. The kind where even if you're not talking and silent, you still feel connected in the heart and soul. She (this friend) is like a sister to me.
A friendship like Anne and Diana's or Lorelei and Suki from Gilmore girls or Meredith and Cristina from Grey's Anatomy, or Monica and Rachel from Friends, or Ruth and Naomi from the Bible. A true, honest, unfailing, spirit to spirit kind of friendship.
I am so glad that I found my kindred spirit and that we have the rest of our lives to be that way. I am at total peace and comfort when we are together. And that's the kind of friendship that you never let go of.
Posted by Mandy at 10:31 PM 1 comments
Labels: friends, movies, reflections
Monday, August 4, 2008
August 4
This weekend I am having a yard sale. That's all I really have to say tonight. My new laundry line works great. I am happy about that. Anywho...until tomorrow when hopefully I will have more to write about.
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Sunday, August 3, 2008
Guess who's back?
TANNER!!!! We just got home a little while ago. Everything that comes with Tanner is back...noise
that smile
his laugh
his messiness
I'm SOOOOO happy!
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Saturday, August 2, 2008
Laundry
This last week I washed our couch cover because it was getting pretty dirty. So I washed it and hung it out on the line to dry. Didn't think anything of it. Off I went to take Tanner to meet my Mom for his fun weekend and when I got back...no cover. Hmmm....what a wonderful husband I have to bring it in for me.
Well, that's not really the whole story. Apparently the laundry line broke because the couch cover was too heavy. I didn't notice that little detail when I got home and noticed the cover not hanging outside. So for the last 3 days, I think "what am I going to do for laundry? I don't want to hang all the laundry inside in nice weather. I'm just going to have to wait to do laundry".
So today we had to go into town to get Matt some work pants...I guess one pair isn't enough since he's practically rolling around in dirt and who knows what else on the ranch while building a fence. Anyways, into town we go. I really like going into town when it's just Matt and I. We don't have to think about if Tanner's hungry or if he's going to want something at every place we go to. So we go to Value Village get his pants and then we head off to Canadian Tire because I saw one of my friends bought a really nice clothes line and she said that's where she got it. So we get there and I see the clothes line and look at the price and I think "we can NOT afford that". So we settled for just the clothes line wire (if that's what you can call it. It's more like cord). I didn't even get the handy pulley system. We just got the $10 30meter cord. I'm really excited to try it out. My amazing husband is still working on putting it up so it's nice and tight. He's so wonderful.
As he was working on it, I picked a lot of Raspberries and weeded around them because I think Matt sometimes forgets to weed around them. There were quite a bit of weeds and I just did it myself so he wouldn't have to.
Anyways, I'm off to work at 4:30. I have an 8 hour shift so it will probably be a long night.
Tomorrow, one of my best friends is having her baby blessed and then having a luncheon after that we are going to. Then we get to pick up Tanner! Today, I really miss him : ( Only 24 more hours!!!! It will be nice to be able to sit through church without any distractions from him or potty breaks. I am looking forward to that. We aren't really doing anything special for the holiday. What is everyone else doing on Monday?
Until tomorrow...
Posted by Mandy at 1:44 PM 1 comments
Friday, August 1, 2008
August 1
As a goal for the month of August I have decided to write on post a day. I guess I should have saved one of my posts from yesterday for today because I don't have much to say. I made cards today and worked on another little project. I did get up a little earlier today...10am. Last night I watched my Grey's Anatomy. I watched 3 episodes. I really think that is my biggest indulgence right now. I love that show. I don't know why, but I just really like that it.
So, for now, I think that's all I have to say.
And just because I can, here's a picture of Tanner.
Posted by Mandy at 3:44 PM 2 comments





